Whether you’ve asked for it or not, you’ve probably received some advice in your life. I know I’ve heard my fair share of words of wisdom (some requested, others un-asked for). Generally speaking, I enjoy the guidance, the words of someone who knows (or seems to know) more about the subject than I do. Even on those occasions when the unsolicited advice reaches my ears, I’m usually pretty pleased to absorb the words.
Henry David Thoreau wrote, “I have lived some thirty years on this planet, and I have yet to hear the first syllable of valuable or even earnest advice from my seniors,” but I have to respectfully disagree. Like it or not, some of the best I’ve been given has come from others who have lived longer than I have, who have seen enough to know what works and what doesn’t in this crazy life. So I listen to their words. I take it in and hope that somehow I’ll end up listen to it.
Like many, I might like to take advice in, listening patiently, but I’m not always good at following advice. I’m very good at listening — and at dishing it out — but not so great at taking it. A few weeks ago though, a very wise woman offered me three phrases of wisdom to carry with me. She said, “Remember these three things: Take it one day at a time, ask for help, and don’t ever give up.”
Those three phrases stuck with me, and they now serve as daily reminders for me, helping me to live in the present and live positively. They offer me inspiration and provide me with the additional strength I need when I’m struggling to see the good around me, which, quite honestly, is something I continue to struggle with often.
