Although many experts believe that a majority of marriages today are in because of financial reasons, problems with and sexuality rank high, too. It seems easier to talk to a stranger online than to your own partner. In fact, the topic of sex is the number one problem discussed in online relationship forums.
These conversations can bring up a log of anxiety in you and cause you to avoid having them altogether. Know that there are some strategies to make these talks easier and you are likely to find it worth the effort. It is important that you are both on the same page, so you should always initiate those conversations first before springing any surprises on your partner. Talk about what you both might enjoy and fantasies you might have. If you do decide to introduce some of these into your relationship, research your options together.
- Spiritual: This is a union of mind, body, and soul that reflects your deep appreciation of being with one another. It can be created by noticing the small moments in your lives.
- Funny: This style is when you can laugh and tease one another in bed. It is about having fun together. There is a light and playful undertone.
- Angry: This is making love even when you’re ticked off at each other. This style can be healing. However, be sure that your problems are eventually talked about and resolved.
- Lusty: This style is wicked and flirty. You may be giving each other seductive looks or doing a “quickie.” This is also about the joy of having sex just for the sake of sex.
