I’d like to say that marriage is far more than a piece of paper or a ring or a lavish ceremony. It goes beyond vows and fluffy words. It’s not a social contract, despite what the PC-brigade would try to brainwash us into accepting. No, marriage is the coming together of two human beings in the most intimate, close relationship available in this life on this planet.
Done correctly, marriage is the most fulfilling, loving, caring, supportive and nurturing relationship we can engage in. The sad reality is that most of us never experience this because of past traumas, selfishness, foolishness, immaturity, lack of preparedness… etc.
Talk to her:- please I urge every married couple to at least talk with patience daily no matter what, if you have worked all day, probably she too has, even if you both are dead tired, talking for a few minutes doesn’t require a great deal of energy but it will surely do a great lot of improvements.
She is the closest companion:- your wife is the first person in this world to think what’s right and what’s wrong for you, with a little bit of patience, you can know what’s her intent behind saying things that you don’t like.
Treat her as a friend, the more she talks the easier to understand:- give her surprises, take her on dates, just the two of you, give her some lone time, talk talk talk.
