Choose one topic at a time for one or both of you. There is a list of upbeat topics below.
Agree on time limits such as 2 minutes with possible extensions of 2 -3 minutes.
Use format for topic talk, such as, who, what, when, why & how with intro/middle/ending.
Show listening with eye contact, nodding, summarizing and asking questions afterwards.
Take turns for as long as both are comfortable or decide beforehand.
Select outcomes for talker and listener. Possibilities include:
- Points: could use chips, beads, tickets, marbles, or coupons that can be redeemed
- Prizes: receive small gifts, selective massages, or various hugs/kisses
- Privileges : get to pick agreeable movies, shows, foods, outings, recreations, or games
- Praises: can offer or request “You did well” type compliments
- Penalties: fines (may increase) for breaking rules like lose turn or perform work
