Obviously adultery is debt, which is very likely to drag our family and descendants someday.What does adultery mean is debt? Let us consider the following hadith of the Prophet:Abu Umamah recounts,”One day there was a young man who came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saying,” O Messenger of Allah, permit me to commit adultery! “The friends rushed to him and rebuked him,
“Silence you, silence!”Rasulullah Shalallahu ‘alaihi wassallam said, “Come closer”.The young man approached him and sat down in front of him.The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked,
“Would you please if your mother was abused by others?””No, for Allah’s sake, Messenger,” the boy replied.”Similarly, other people are not willing if their mother dizinai.
“Would you please if your daughter is abused?”. “No, for Allah’s sake, O Messenger!”. “Likewise others are not willing if their daughters are adulterated”
Would you please if your real sister is married?””No, for Allah’s sake, O Messenger!””Similarly, others are not willing if their sister is adulterated”. “Would you please if your aunt is being awaited?”
No, for Allah’s sake, O Messenger!””Likewise others are not willing if their aunts are adulterated””Would you please if your aunt’s aunt’s aunt?””No, for Allah’s sake, O Messenger!Likewise others are not willing if their aunts are abused.
Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) put his hand on the boy chest while saying, “O Allah, forgive his mistake, purify his heart and guard his cock.
After the incident, the young man was never again interested in committing adultery, “(HR Ahmad).From the explanation of the Prophet in the hadith above, we can know that when a man commits adultery with a woman,
the same man is adultering a girl, a younger sister, a future wife, even a mother candidate. Realize that the woman has a father who is certainly not willing to adulter his daugther, the woman has a family that would not be pleased to be desecrated.
